What's the best way to tell my husband I'm leaving him to write children's books w/a man who doesn't own a car?

Children's book writers make almost no money on average. this is why he is not materialistic or has no car.... think about living a life that is way more poor than what you now have. Get your hubby into the gym and see if this motivates him. ED can be caused by him picking up the vibe that you are not happy in the bed. Let him know.