What do guys mean when they say a girl is big?

sometimes guys don't think before they speak.. let him know what he said hurt you. and good for you for setting a goal, goals make all things possible. im also trying to lose weight (i weigh 130 and want to get down to 115 at 5'4"). i recently joined a gym with a friend and cut out all sugar and it helps. so what if you aren't a skinny minny, confidence makes you beautiful.